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<\/p>\nShe started taking her first steps 3 weeks ago.
\n1, 2, 3 steps while her hands were let go, and now 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 ….. until she lost her balance, and thud, she lands on her buttocks.
\nMost of the time, she holds on to the wall and cover the distance she wants to travel.
\nWhen she looses her balance and lands on her buttocks, she frowns and looks at us, waiting for the encouraging words from us.<\/p>\n
When I returned from Japan, she clung on to Daddy, and cried when she saw me.
\nDidn’t allow me to carry or touch her.
\nWhen I offered her the breast, she pinched it, and looked at me with suspicion.
\nDaddy said she’s taking the bottle really well when I was away, maybe I should wean her.
\nBut then, I wanted to breastfeed her till she is at least 18months like I did with Zara to be fair, so I continued to offer her.
\nOn the 2nd day, she clung on to me, as though regaining her memory of me and the breast.<\/p>\n
She started ‘hitting’ her self when she is angry or unhappy, she just smacks the head and frowns. Don’t know where she learns that. *sigh*<\/p>\n
A typical conversation<\/em> we have during feeding time. I like to tease her and see her reaction. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ . ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<\/p>\n On Zara<\/strong><\/span> I don’t think I’d mentioned this before, but since her 3rd birthday, she refused to put on a diaper. She has been diaperless ever since. She has 2 accidents so far and we thought that has to do with Tuyam leaving us<\/a>.<\/p>\n She’s talking and singing more. She’ll entertain us with her make up stories or songs, or sometimes throws in some dance moves as well.<\/p>\n Some recent events : On our way home one day, she wanted to get off her car seat to sit close to me. MIL nick-named her Lou-chou (\u00e8\u20ac\u0081\u00e7\u00b2\u2014, which is used for someone who’s roudy in Cantonese) when she becomes too rough.
\nZaria : “Milk”.<\/span>
\nMe : “Bottle milk or breast milk?”<\/span>
\nZaria : “Best”.<\/span>
\nMe : “Mummy gives you bottle milk, ok?”<\/span>
\nZaria : *smacks herself and frowns* “Ugh!”<\/span> or *moves her index finger in front of her face* “No”<\/span>
\nMe : “Mummy gives you breast milk then”<\/span>
\nZaria : *smiles and moves herself to the bed or sofa* “K!”<\/span><\/p>\n
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\nShe was singing Baa Baa Black Sheep and sang, “Yes sir, yes sir, three bag full.”<\/span>
\nDaddy corrected her by saying it’s three bagS full, not three bag full. Daddy told her she needed 3 bagS or else there won’t be enough to give the master, the dame and the little boy.
\nShe kept getting it wrong, and after several corrections by Daddy, she sang, “Yes sir, Yes sir, one bag full<\/em><\/strong>. None<\/em><\/strong> for the master, none<\/em><\/strong> for the dame, one<\/strong> for the little boy who lives down the lane.”<\/span><\/p>\n
\n“Mummy I don’t want to sit in the car seat any more.”<\/span>
\n“We’re on the highway, so you must sit on your car seat.”<\/span> (I sometimes allow her to be without her car seat when we make short trips to the nearby mini-market.)
\n“What if we’re on the low-way<\/em><\/strong>, can I come out from the car seat?.”<\/span><\/p>\n
\nSo these days, when we see a behaviour we didn’t like, we ask her, “Are you a lou-chou?”<\/span>
\nShe’ll quickly replies, “I’m a princess, not a lou-chou.”<\/span>, and quickly change her behaviour.
\nIt’s a very good way to remind her of her manners, and that she’s a girl. \ud83d\ude1b<\/p>\n