Do you talk to your children about your ex boyfriends or the relationship you have before you were married? <\/p>\n
For me, since my girls and I talked about anything under the sun (the boys they like in school or enrichment class, who they or I thought is \u5e05 or handsome etc) they knew how many ex boyfriends I’d had before their dad came along. <\/p>\n
Tonight before bed time, they wanted to question me about my past. Guess who did the interrogation? Zaria, the chili padi, but of course.
\nThe interesting bits I’d captured :
\nZaria : So did you hold Mr Chineeeese Man’s hands?<\/span>
\nMe : Yeah.<\/span>
\nZaria : What else did you do with Mr Chineeeese Man?<\/span>
\nMe : We kissed.<\/span>
\nZaria : Ptui! Buek! You kissed him? I’m not going to let you kiss me any more. Ptui!<\/span>
\no.O”
\n…..
\nZaria : Where did you kiss him? In the restaurant?? In the toilet? In the shopping mall? Ptui.. UEK!<\/span>
\nMe : We don’t kiss in public, Zaria.<\/span>
\nZara : That’s why ma, you shouldn’t kiss me in school too. It’s embarrassing.<\/span>
\nMe : *roll eyes*
\nZaria : Ptui! Buek.<\/span>
\nMe : Why can’t I kiss my boy friend?<\/span>
\nZaria : Ptui! His salivAAAAA. EWWWW… UEK!<\/span> *scrunching her face up*
\nMe : Then, can I kiss you dad?<\/span>
\nZaria : At least he’s your husband! Boy friend, girl friend, no kissy kissy! It’s HORRID, PUTRID and DISGRACEFUL. And the least I want to say is, it’s DISGUSTING!<\/span>
\no.O”
\n(I have to remember to show her this in future, and remind her “Girl friend, boy friend, no kissy kissy!<\/strong>“<\/span>)<\/p>\n