{"id":602,"date":"2007-10-29T11:02:44","date_gmt":"2007-10-29T03:02:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mytwogirls.net\/?p=602"},"modified":"2007-10-29T11:22:23","modified_gmt":"2007-10-29T03:22:23","slug":"some-privacy-please","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mytwogirls.net\/?p=602","title":{"rendered":"Some Privacy Please"},"content":{"rendered":"

Zara is very clingy to me, especially when she knows it’s a weekend, or it’s after working hours (I normally declare by shouting DING DONG<\/strong>“<\/span> to the girls to indicate I’d finished work), and I’m supposed to be the one who ‘jaga’ (Malay : Take care of) her.<\/p>\n

I tried training her to sleep on her own by giving her milk, wait for her to finish, and then conning<\/strike> telling her I need to take my shower first,\u00a0before I\u00a0join her in bed.<\/p>\n

If she’s willing, she’ll agree, and will tell me, “Mummy, you take bath, but don’t close the door ok?”<\/span>
\nMost of the time when I’m done showering, she would have fallen asleep.<\/p>\n

There are times when she’s not willing to sleep first, and she’ll say “pat pat me first”<\/span> or “You sleep with me first, then only take bath.” <\/span>At times like this, when I insisted that I needed a bath, she would say she’ll join me in the bath.<\/p>\n

What she’ll do is, she’ll pull a stool and place it outside of the shower cubicle, and then watch me shower; after that, she’ll pull the stool and place it near the sink and watch me brush my teeth.<\/p>\n

Yesterday, I wanted to use the toilet and she told me she wanted to come with me.
\nSo I told her, “Mummy want to poo poo la.”<\/span>
\nShe insisted, “But I want to come!”<\/span>
\n“Very smelly la. You don’t follow me.”<\/span>
\nHer response, “Never mind. I\u00a0stay in the\u00a0toilet and\u00a0do like this..”<\/span> And she pinched her nose.<\/p>\n

o.O”<\/p>\n

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