Zara is not bothered when I’m around her naked. In fact, she behaves as though it’s the most natural thing to do.<\/p>\n
When we shower together, she loves asking me to carry her, and she’ll cling to me like a koala and lay her head on my shoulder. She probably likes the skin touch skin feeling.<\/p>\n
The strange thing is, when Daddy is around her naked (even just being topless), she would say, “Daddy shame shame, never wear baju (Malay: clothes)”<\/span>. If Daddy is topless, she would not let him hug her. She would just say, “Don’t want”<\/span> without giving a reason (“Becausssssssss.. don’t want”<\/span> she would say).<\/p>\n We tried this a couple of times, and the behaviour is always the same. I really wonder why.<\/p>\n ~~~~~~~~~~~ . ~~~~~~~~~~~<\/p>\n I tried to check if she knows the different between a man and a woman one day.
\nSo I asked her, “Mummy got petpet (Chinese : female organ) or not?”<\/span>
\nZara answered, “Got. Like Zara. Zara got petpet.”<\/span>
\nAnd then I asked her, “Daddy got petpet or not?”<\/span>
\nZara answered, “No. Daddy don’t have. Daddy got pineapple. Got hair one.”<\/span>
\nI laughed till I had tears in my eyes. Daddy’s definitely doesn’t shape like a pineapple, I don’t know how she even connect the two.<\/p>\n