{"id":2260,"date":"2010-06-22T16:32:51","date_gmt":"2010-06-22T08:32:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mytwogirls.net\/?p=2260"},"modified":"2010-06-22T16:34:27","modified_gmt":"2010-06-22T08:34:27","slug":"sex-education-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mytwogirls.net\/?p=2260","title":{"rendered":"Sex Education…. Not"},"content":{"rendered":"

I havent’s started sex education at home with the girls yet, except the below few points :
\n1) You have to get married to have babies
\n2) tell me if someone stroke them or touch their private parts (Daddy also cannot, Aunty also cannot, their school teachers also cannot, not even their friends, etc etc.)<\/p>\n

Here are some conversations with Zara, which is so innocent.<\/p>\n

I talked to her about original sin, baptise and baptism.
\nShe asked : What is baptism?<\/span>
\nMe : Baptism is the ceremony of getting baptised. Just like if you get married, what is the ceremony? Wedding right?<\/span>
\nZara : Yah. So what happened if I don’t get baptised?<\/span>
\nMe : (already told her about original sin, so I thought I’ll tell her what she can’t do if she’s not baptised)Then if you get married next time, you cannot have your wedding in the church.<\/span>
\nZara : Never mind, I can have my wedding in the restaurant.<\/span>
\nMe : Normally, you don’t have your wedding in the restaurant. You throw a party after your wedding, and it’s held in a restaurant. You don’t get married in the restaurant.<\/span>
\nZara : Oh….I know. The real real wedding is in the hospital.<\/span>
\nMe : Huh?<\/span>
\nZara : You get married already, then you have baby, then you go to the hospital to take out the baby. So your real real wedding is in the hospital right?<\/span><\/p>\n

o.O”
\nI had to tell her doesn’t mean once you get married you’ll have a baby, and I told her our story of waiting for her<\/a> for so long (well, not the whole story, but the waiting and finally having her).<\/p>\n

She went “oooooh….”<\/span> but don’t know if she really understood it.<\/p>\n

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Sometimes when we share a toilet, they will check my panty to see if I was getting my period.
\n“Oh… you are not having your period. But how come you got pus in your petpet?”<\/span>
\no.O”
\n“It’s discharge, not pus!”<\/span> I have to tell them.
\nIt’s rather embarassing if they said that out loud in the public toilet.<\/p>\n

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On another day, Zara told me she felt a pain in her private area and she might have ‘pus’. We waited till we got home so I could check what happened to her.
\nUpon checking, I found that it’s just because we were out the whole day, and she’s just a little dirty down there so I washed her and told her she would be fine.
\nMe : How come you don’t know your pain is caused by your petpet being dirty?<\/span>
\nZara : I don’t know because my teacher never teach me in school.<\/span>
\no.O”
\nAnd then, she thought of something really funny and she started giggling.
\nZara : My teacher cannot teach me in school also. Hahahahaha.. Because if they teach me, then they’ll have to say the word ‘petpet’. Hahahahaha..<\/span>
\nZara : How can teacher said the word ‘petpet’.. Hahahaha..<\/span>
\no.O”
\nI told her they don’t have to use the word petpet to teach her, they can say ‘private part’. But then, normally teachers don’t teach them about such things.<\/p>\n

Wait till it’s time for me to tell her the real truth about how a baby is made. Maybe I can write a blog post and give her the link. o.O”<\/p>\n

\"Ooommmph...\"<\/p>\n

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