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By: Reality Check « All About Zara and Zaria

Reality Check « All About Zara and Zaria — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 03:25:28 +0000

[…] realise I must be quite harsh on her most of the time. I have to learn from this young lady, to use more positive words when I give out instructions or comments to […]

By: kwai yoke

kwai yoke — Mon, 29 Jan 2007 09:35:26 +0000

*sigh* Who doesn’t want to be fair? But there are times when we need to decide who we need to attend to first or to get the other child to give in. It is tough and can be painful at times.

Eu has grown to understand when he gives in to his sister, he is making mommy and mei mei happy. And for the good behavior, he will get rewarded. As Tien started to understand things better, she is made to know she cannot always get her way. Things will get easier as they grow and mature. But the attention fighting part, yes it continues. They now speak at the same time and expect me to answer both their questions at the same time. Headache! Guess there’s always new challenge when you overcome one. Haha!

By: kelly

kelly — Tue, 23 Jan 2007 10:07:28 +0000

I asked my hubby to read this post the other day.. I wanted him to know how tough it would be if we had 2nd one. :p We decided to have one kid only but recently he changed his mind. He thinks Qianyi is too lonely and needs a playmate.

By: miche

miche — Tue, 23 Jan 2007 07:58:21 +0000

i know how you felt and i am still in the same phase as you and i have to jungle between 3, not 2…let us continue to pray for wisdom from above to raise to be a godly mom and also to raise godly children. 😀

By: Joelle's mmy

Joelle's mmy — Mon, 22 Jan 2007 08:01:40 +0000

she need more attention from u…..
and maybe she still haven’t get use to have a NEW member at house!

By: nadia

nadia — Mon, 22 Jan 2007 02:44:44 +0000

Oh dear, you must be exhausted by now! I know how/what Zara feels because that was how I felt when my brother was born (we are 6 years apart). All I can say is: hang in there and things WILL get better given time. You’re doing a swell job as a mommy right now. I wouldn’t know how I’d handle if I were in your shoes. Take care, yah?!

By: RIna

RIna — Mon, 22 Jan 2007 01:10:26 +0000

I really feel 4 u. Zara now can see she is not the only one. Hang in there-it will pass, not 100 %, but Zara will get used to her sister being around.Soon they will be playing together!

By: michelle

michelle — Fri, 19 Jan 2007 09:25:23 +0000

Try saying NO to Zara, let her CIO. Of coz you must spend quality time with her too. Just dont live by her demands. 😛

By: allyfeel

allyfeel — Fri, 19 Jan 2007 02:29:39 +0000

Oh wow, sounds a lil scary to me now. I too hope I could be able to cope. Hang in there yeah…!

By: Hijackqueen

Hijackqueen — Fri, 19 Jan 2007 01:07:50 +0000

This is only the starting line. Wait till they fight over slightest thing. That will give you more headache.