See Fei,
Your wife is really lucky, and you are very sensible! If only all men are like that.

May,
Are you going to source one from Cocka’s cupboard? 😛 Happy holidays to you too.

Jesslyn,
He did help out lar.. eventually, after much nagging.

Michelle,
I want to be around so that I can supervise as well. Though the maids have been around for a while, they are still not used to Zara’s ritual. Once that’s establish, I’ll sneak into the office occasionally.
Yes, I really can’t do w/out a maid, that’s why I’m absolutely amazed with you.

Laundryamah,
Yeah wor, why men like that one huh?

Shannon Chong,
That one the hati no feeling one wor. But after some nagging, he did help.

Huisia,
So unfair right this world?

Immomsdaugther,
Haha, his pampering hor FOC for him one wor. And also I planned out activities for Zara before I go for my massage, so hor, really he just sit there and watch over Zara that’s all.

Blurblur,
Throw him out many times liao, sometimes really have to be fierce and stern and kick and scream before he moves one. *sigh*

Domestic Rat,
Mine will move when lots of nagging has been performed.

Sesame,
He didn’t get the hint, but after some nagging, he did help.
It’s tough when you have to work, and pregnant, and dealing with a active toddler. Sometimes I feel so bad being all worked out when I handled Zara.
Men, they always get the easier way out huh?

Mott,
Yes.. men.. *slap head*

Shoppingmum,
Tough huh? Being a working mum?

Khongfamily,
Sis has another maid to jaga her elderly MIL. So I just loan her for 1 month. Even if I threaten to kick him out of the house, he won’t get it as well.. 🙁
But luckily I blew my top, and finally he’s helping.

Shiaulin,
Yours also ah?

Anon,
Yes, when you deal with men, you really need lots of patience.
We have short listed 2 names, but haven’t decided one yet. Zandra is nice, but too close to Sandra, the name of my other sis’ Filipino maid. 🙁

Vien,
Yup yup, men have no initiative when it comes to things like this, needs lots of ‘telling them outright’ or nagging.

Samm,
Wah, you husband so nice with Malcolm’s arrival. That’s really sweet.
We can if we want to, but sometimes just the thought that things are so unfair that I become extremely edgy.

Jasmine,
Tough ler with men. But like I mentioned, luckily he helped out after lots of nagging from me.

Twin,
He did help.. Esp today, since he’s not working and I am.

Vyvy,
Haha.. this is so right.. mine got moving after some nagging. 😛

Whoisbaby,
Yeah! They have short term memory when it comes to these things.
Mine have to tell, then he’ll do, then after that forget. Then have to tell again, then he’ll do.. Aigh.

maybe consider a part time maid to do housework?

I believe ur hubby will help out once he sees that life is definitely very different when bb comes back. Juggling a carrer with kids around the house is no easy feat. I’m a fine example of that, as u know. But, we are all supermoms, hoh. If we think we can, YESS!! WE CAN!!! Hugzzzz!!

btw, have u decided on a name for Zara’s sis? I’ve come across a colleagues name..starts with a Z, which I think suits her and to me its very nice name…~Zandra~ 🙂