Comments on: Leaving Zara alone https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251 WAHM's journey to bringing up two girls Fri, 09 Jun 2006 10:52:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.5 By: Anonymous https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4453 Fri, 09 Jun 2006 10:52:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4453 What a great site, how do you build such a cool site, its excellent.
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]]> By: Anonymous https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4452 Wed, 31 May 2006 21:44:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4452 I tend to agree with anonymous. In some point of time, you do need time for yourself like a shower. It’s your time, so why do you need Zara’s approval. Do you get Daddy’s approval to do anything?
I am very much a parent myself – I love and adore my own children very much but I need my space too. Having some time to myself doesn’t mean I love my children any less. You have to balance your life!

]]> By: Anonymous https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4451 Wed, 31 May 2006 21:11:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4451 My dear zara’s mama,
Contrary to what you might think, I am very much a parent. I never had this problem where my child is so attached to me until I can’t even take a frigging shower!!!

I just find it absolutely absurd that you have to gain your child’s approval to even disappear from her sight for a short while. You must learn to distract her, or let someone else draw her attention, so that you can attend to your own basic needs like taking a shower or a pee.

In other words…LET GO!

]]> By: Zara's Mama https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4450 Wed, 31 May 2006 10:04:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4450 Anonymous,
Oh boy, you either aren’t a parent yet, or you practice dictatorship in your household. You are the dictator, and your kids are merely there to obey orders.

]]> By: Anonymous https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4449 Tue, 30 May 2006 10:49:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4449 puhleezzz…you are her mother! U don’t need her approval to take a shower!!

]]> By: Zara's Mama https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4448 Mon, 29 May 2006 18:48:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4448 Geetha,
Thats right.. it really gives you the comfort feeling that she won’t do anything silly.

Allyfeel,
Huh? How do you know is didi ah?
She gets her exposure of piano from King’s Wife’s place, and yeah, she likes to play it.

Sue,
Yes.. big girl.

Robin,
Yes, need to. Sometimes if I find it’s too quiet with whatever she does, I’ll check on her.

Sabrina,
Alamak.. gone is your nicely ‘modified’ cot.

]]> By: Sabrina https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4447 Mon, 29 May 2006 15:58:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4447 Zara’s baby cot looks just the same like Keith’s.I’ve modified the coat into a bed like you did for Zara and my cot never last for 2 days. My daughter came back and that fatty ran and jump on it and it broke into two.(*slap forehead*)

]]> By: Robin https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4446 Mon, 29 May 2006 13:59:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4446 do keep a close watch every now and then too..

Children will forever be children.

]]> By: Sue https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4445 Mon, 29 May 2006 13:50:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4445 Such a big girl now!

]]> By: Allyfeel https://mytwogirls.net/?p=251&cpage=1#comment-4444 Mon, 29 May 2006 13:25:00 +0000 http://mytwogirls.net/?p=251#comment-4444 Zara well behaved girl. Very “kuai”, later got didi, have to help mommy take care of did oo. 😛

She definitely looks so matured now.
Zara likes playing piano??

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