{"id":3315,"date":"2011-06-23T14:21:56","date_gmt":"2011-06-23T06:21:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mytwogirls.net\/?p=3315"},"modified":"2013-07-05T12:20:03","modified_gmt":"2013-07-05T04:20:03","slug":"making-their-plans-ahead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mytwogirls.net\/?p=3315","title":{"rendered":"Making Plans Ahead"},"content":{"rendered":"

Over dinner.
\nZaria: Jie, your boy friend is PhangSY, R, BeiYQ?<\/span>
\nZara : Ya<\/span>
\nZaria: Are you going to get married to all of them?<\/span>
\nZara : I’m not a bigamist ok!<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Cycling<\/p>\n

So she’s not a bigamist, but what do the girls say about getting married?
\nMaybe it’s my fault, I showed them a video of me giving birth to Zaria, and told them getting married means having babies; since the video of me giving birth to Zaria was filled with gore and blood, they had this conversation one day.<\/p>\n

\"Reading<\/p>\n

Zara : I’m not going to get married<\/span>
\nZaria: Ya jie, me too.<\/span>
\nZara : I can spend time on my own.
\nWe can go bow and shooting together Zaria.<\/span> o.O
\nZaria: We can go for treasure hunts<\/span> o.O
\nDo painting, go shopping, go have dinner (together)<\/span>
\nWe can go Disneyland<\/span>
\nZara : Zaria, by then, you don’t want to go Disneyland, you want to go Ikano<\/span>
\nZaria: We can go to the cinema to watch Harry Potter<\/span>
\n(sounds like a great plan to me, so much freedom, so much sparetime to do things enjoyable. I wish I had thought about this before I tied the knot)
\nZara : Ya. We don’t want to get married and have children<\/span> <\/p>\n

\"In<\/p>\n

Me : Then why do I have children?<\/span>
\nZara : Because you are married that’s why. You can’t change that!<\/span><\/p>\n

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