her very first boy friend<\/a>; a boy who’s captured her heart for 2 years. Even though on her last year of kindergarten, the boy has already went to Standard 1 and attended another school and they never met again, Zara still thought of him as her boy friend. o.O” <\/p>\nAfter being in Standard 1 for 1 month +, she came home 1 day declaring she has found another ‘boy friend’. When I went to pick her up the following day, she excitedly pointed out the ‘boy’, R, to me. R sits several rows away from her, is really cute, looks like a goodie-two-shoes, with a radiant smile and deep dimples. Well, if I was her age, I’d probably like the same boy too. <\/p>\n
A couple of times when I was there to pick Zara up, after the last bell rang, I saw them running out to the waiting area together<\/strike> Zara chasing after him to the waiting area. o.O” <\/p>\n
In the car, she likes to share with me what happened to R and herself, here are some to share.<\/p>\n
Zara : “Mom, today I kissed R.”<\/span>
\nMe : *have to sound like it’s not a big deal* “You did?”<\/span>
\nZara : “Ya, I did.”<\/span>
\nMe : “Where did you kiss him?”<\/span>
\nZara : “Well, I blew him kisses.”<\/span> (and she showed me how she did it, 1st kissing her palm, then blowing the kiss out)
\nMe : (a bit shocked, but found it funny too) “And what did he do?”<\/span>
\nZara : “He dodged them, like this and like this.”<\/span> (moving her body left and right) And she smiled, like it’s no big deal he dodged her kisses. o.O”<\/p>\n~~~~~~~~~~~~~ . ~~~~~~~~~~~~~<\/p>\n
Zara : “Mom, every day I walked out to the hall with R after school”<\/span>
\nMe : “You walked side by side?”<\/span>
\nZara : “Oh, well, he ran really fast, and I just chased after him and keep up with him.”<\/span>
\no.O”<\/p>\n~~~~~~~~~~~~~ . ~~~~~~~~~~~~~<\/p>\n
Me : “Zara, you said R is your boy friend, does he treat you like his girl friend?”<\/span>
\nZara : “Ya, he does, he walks with me after school.”<\/span> (more like she chased after him) o.O”
\nMe : “And you are his only girl friend?”<\/span>
\nZara : “No, he has 3 girl friends”<\/span>
\nMe : “And you are fine with that?”<\/span>
\nZara : “Ya, I’m fine. Because he’s not married yet so it’s ok to have so many girl friends.”<\/span> o.O”<\/p>\n~~~~~~~~~~~~~ . ~~~~~~~~~~~~~<\/p>\n
And the best one…. yesterday on our way home from school.
\nZara : *happily*“Today R talked to me.”<\/span>
\nMe : “Oh, what did you talk about.”<\/span>
\nZara : “I touched him, and then he told me \u4e0d\u8981\u6478\u6211 (Don’t touch me).” *laughed*<\/span>
\n(Faint! This is ‘talk’?)
\no.O” o.O” o.O”<\/p>\nBut…….. I’m amazed at her confidence, and her perserverence, and the way she looks at things light heartedly. Way to go my girl!<\/p>\n
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